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Going Back to College:
Students Tell of Struggle, Success
Taking the First Step
Being a nontraditional student has been an experience
that I have enjoyed. Going back to school was a big
step for me and I had been very worried about making
that step. I was afraid with the amount of time that
it had been since I had graduated from high school and
was uncertain of being able to succeed with good grades.
Once attending classes I found that I was still capable
of being a productive student.
The instructors have been very
patient and have made me realize you are never to old to go back to
college. With the uncertainty I had experienced and the nervousness that I
felt, the instructors made the experience of attending college a great
relief. With the diversity of the students and their ages, I feel I have
experienced a greater aspect of what the business world will be like. I feel a since of great accomplishment as each semester ends. Learning
new skills in my field and building my knowledge has
given me more confidence.
As classes have become more challenging, I have had to study harder and
have found I can overcome these challenges. As I overcome these challenges,
I find that I look forward to the next challenge and the one after that.
Going back to college has given me the opportunity to express myself and
to believe in myself. I know that I can establish myself in the field
I have chosen and become a success in this field. It has been very difficult
being a divorced woman with two teenage sons but, as I have become more
knowledgeable in my field I can see my sons becoming proud of their mom.
With the experiences I have had attending college and overcoming obstacles,
I hope to have showed my sons that anything is possible!--L.F.,
age 40.
Lifelong Student
“I decided to begin college again in the summer of 1999 by taking a
Shoreline Ecology class through Linfield College at the Oregon coast. This
was a one-week "hands-on" class and the course description sounded really
interesting. My husband and I each took one week off from work -- we drove
to the coast and set up camp at Beverly Beach State Park outside Newport,
Oregon. Each morning, my huband dropped me off at the meeting site and he
met me again after class was over. Each evening,
we made dinner over a campfire (or went to town) and I then studied by
Coleman lantern and slept in a sleeping bag in a tent. This was part of my
great experience!
Unfortunately, shortly before class began, I had knee surgery to remove
torn cartilage, and I missed the lecture part of the class held at the main
campus in McMinnville. The professor gave me the name and phone number of
a fellow student, who was really kind and shared her lecture notes with me.
During the field trips at the coast, I was required to keep a journal and
draw and classify every organism, plant, animal, bird and fish that I
encountered. Even though I can only draw stick figures, I pretended I was an artist during class and I drew everything in sight.
I told myself not to be afraid! I made up for my crude drawings by
identifying features and writing extensive descriptions.
Since I knew I would be in the tidepools and thought I might slip on mossy
or wet surfaces, I had my knee surgeon order an elaborate knee brace for
stability. I looked like "Robocop." One morning, we were going to a
tidepool in an area known as Boiler Bay. It is down an incredibly steep
slope and I was really worried about my knee holding up, even with the knee
brace. Three male students roped me down the cliff face and were very
gentle and patient with me. It took me a really long time to
get down and then in the afternoon, to get back up the cliff face.
Another older woman was helped by the same students, too. It helped that
the professor just assumed that we would find out way down -- and he was
right not to coddle us.
I was amazed to find out that my fellow students were as old or older than
me, and even traveled greater distances to attend the class. Three
students came over from Bend, Oregon! We students were so enthusiastic!!
We got up early to study the organisms in the low intertidal zones, drove
to sand dunes to study plants, put boots on and slogged around in muddy
flats, visited an oyster farm and the Hatfield Marine Science Center, and
generally spent all day together. We ended up in teams helping each other in the different classifications of plants, animals, birds and
fishes. We became good friends and exchanged addresses and phone numbers.
I have spent time with some of my fellow students and I know that they
feel as I do because they have articulated their thoughts. I am more dedicated
and have a clearer vision of the college experience than when I was younger.
I am also very proud to say that I have a 3.9 cumulative GPA while continuing
to work full-time as a paralegal. My employer is very happy that I am
back in college. He believes that one should be a 'lifelong student'.--P.E.,
age 44. Next...
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