First thing, contact University of Phoenix. It's not for everyone, but right now you have a full plate and no support emotionally.
UofP program is setup with teams, you won't be going it alone because your entire program is with the same group of people, by email, telephone, etc. So, that may work for you right now.
I don't know if you've checked what courses you must have to get into a good pharmacy school, I do suggest you go find out. That way, when you start looking at undergrad programs you won't waste your time taking junk you don't need.
Think about it this way: You'll gain experience to help your little one when she's ready to go to college.
Life doesn't pass you by - life is what it is. Go now, go at 40, go at 60 or go at 80. It's never too late to do the things that are important to you.
Go Get 'em!
