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Procrastination
Control: Success Tips For Adult Students
by Shayne Rivers
It was a nightmare that I have repeatedly. I sit at
my desk; piles of textbooks with pages marked, sit next
to me. On my right is a half
eaten bowl of ice-cream. On my left are the instructions
to the class assignment, due tomorrow. I wish for nothing
more than to be in my bed, all books closed and study
lights dimmed. Instead, the nightmare drags on, often
until 1 A.M. when I finally complete the assignment
and stumble into the blankets, trying not to wake my
husband.
I blame my habit of procrastination on my children,
on the dog being sick, or sometimes even on the dirty
dishes still piled in the sink. In the end I had to
admit that it was fear. It was a deep fear that I was
not good enough, that I was not knowledgeable enough,
to write the assignments for the class. Once my professor
reads my inept thoughts in black and white Ill
be finished. He will know me for the childrearing, house
cleaning, dog walking woman I am and will banish me
to the back of the classroom. Worse he will know that
although I desperately want to succeed and pass every
class with an 'A', my studies do come last.
As a psychology major, recognizing the fear for what
it truly was enabled me to combat it. I created a list
of study tactics that removed my excuses and ended the
nightmare. Simple and straightforward, you can use these
tactics to keep yourself on track. I know they will
help you as much as they helped me.
1. Set aside time. The very first
thing that you must do is set a schedule for yourself.
If you are taking one class or many, mark the assignment
due date on your calendar, then work backwards. Set
a date for when you need to have the rough draft completed;
then the deadline for your research
to be finished. Once these dates are posted in your
calendar, stick to them. If you fail to plan you plan
to fail.
2. Make a habit of it. What are your
daily habits? Is there a time that you can squeeze in
15 or 30 minutes for school work, and only school work,
with no interruptions? Schedule it on your calendar.
If your children are younger, study before they get
up by setting the alarm clock a half hour earlier or
set your study time to correspond with their nap time.
If your children are school-aged, study time should
start after they leave in the morning, before you tackle
housework or errands. If you are lucky enough to be
an empty nester turn off your phone so you wont
be interrupted by any calls. My husband goes to work
30 minutes early and uses that time to do his course
assignments. The office is quiet in the early morning
hours and he has relatively few interruptions.
3. Do it now. First thing in the morning
check your calendar for what activity you need to accomplish
today and then do it. Do not get side tracked by other
work. You made the schedule - you complete it. I
have found for myself that every semester there is one
class that I just dont want to do. It could
be because the subject is new to me or is a subject
I just dont like. I found that I pushed that class
to the bottom of my list. I would finish assignments
that were due weeks down the road so that I had a good
excuse for why I didnt work on the hated classes
assignments due tomorrow! When I stick to my schedule
I dont have any excuses. You made your schedule
and you are going to stick to it, no excuses!
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